Thursday, November 29, 2012

Having MUMPS during EXAM..

I brought mumps at the resto
Yesterday, I had a hard time answering my exam in Physiology because of my mumps. I was lost in mind and all that I've studied last night flushed out. I also got a fever that's why I rushed to answer all the items in the exam without reviewing it. I was so helpless!

As I'm writing this, the inflammation on my parotid gland got worse. When I eat something, it hurts. I even cried yesterday because of the pain it brought to me. I was also advised to take out my retainers for a while and eat porridge to prevent pain.

Having mumps during exam is not good. I think you'll be advised to take a rest and take special exams later but for my case, I didn't tell anyone about it until my friend noticed the swelling. As I've searched in the internet the only medication that we can have is the ice treatment. Also elders recommended ANIEL soaked with vinegar to be applied on the swelled portion.

Sunday, November 25, 2012

Everyday is a QUIZ day...

Right now, I feel like being squeezed out from the pressures given by our professors. I'm almost freaking out!

Yeah, college really lifts you to a new scale and being a pre-medical student is not a joke. I feel like mountain climbing. I have to give my all to reach the top. Whew!

Well,what made me write this thing here is that college is like joining an AMAZING RACE. You have to be cunning, swift, wise and everything that attributes to being a survivor without thinking of giving up. Since everyday is a quiz day I have to be prepared and be equipped to those unannounced quizzes.

But then it turns out that everyday is a nerve-wracking quiz day because all of my subjects are clashing and I can't manage to do studying all these subjects at once. Help!

Today, I have to finish all my homeworks, study for Anatomy, Public Health, Economics, Speech Comm, Chemistry and Physiology for a quiz tomorrow. How does it sound like? LOL

For me, everyday turns out to be a challenge. Having taken another step up the ladder is a fulfillment thinking you're doing it for yourself, for your family and for pleasing God to have given you everything you need in times of difficulties. All I need is motivation right now and i hope that God will help me to keep on going without falling. Happy Sunday Everyone!

Sunday, November 18, 2012

I'm in love with a weirdo (One-shot Love Story)

NOTE: Hi guys, this is the story that I've made last year. Although this is a product of my imagination but I do think it happens in real life (I hope so).  Spare me for my English and I hope you enjoy my one-shot! ♥Cindy

My one shot story inspired from
Namida Usagi

I was in second year high school then.

When we were heading towards our classroom, I heard again the teasing of my classmates.

"Hey, Heidi. Here’s your soul mate again. Ayeee!"

I was trying not to be affected by them.  I didn’t know the person anyway. For me, the teasing was all for fun but I realized that they were now too much. I could see the guy noticed it already.

"Will you stop it guys? It’s embarrassing already."

Well, I really don’t know when it all started. It’s just that this week, I’m always teased to this guy. Sometimes, I realized that just because I don’t have a boyfriend, they thought it would be fun if they will tease me with a guy who is as weird as me. Yes, I consider myself a weird person but I’m not as weird as him. What made him weird is that he was always around like he doesn't have classes to attend to. We always saw him sitting on the bench waiting for someone, looking at other people passing by. 

One day, I was really in a hurry to catch for my first class. Our teacher would be giving us a test. I know I
was late so I rushed to the stairs when suddenly someone bumped me.

I was red in fury when my books were on the staircase. I immediately reached for my books when my eyes opened wider and found out the one who ran unto me. What a fate! It’s the weird guy. I quickly took my books when he reached the other book for me.

"S-S-sorry miss! A-are you hurt? I'm so sorry." He asked, very tensed.

I didn’t know what to say at that moment. The teacher must have started the test so without wasting my time, I just nodded to him saying it’s all right and rushed to my class. I entered the classroom answering the remaining items our teacher dictated to us and well, I completely lost my mind thinking of that weird guy who bumped to me a while ago. 

I usually go home alone but before I go out from the gates of the school, I never forget to go to the wide and beautiful garden to get fresh air. As I was unwinding myself, it was first time of me to hear a sound of a violin, it was well-played and was pleasing to my ears. It was somewhat leading me to a place where I want to go. I listened to it for a while, feeling it when it suddenly stopped. There my curiosity grew to who was playing the violin and I went nearer to found out that....... the weird guy was the one playing the violin!

As I watched him every other day, I thought he was not a weirdo at all. He was a talented guy. One day, I was listening to him without noticing me when my cough aroused. He heard it and I was left with no choice but to show up and come up with an excuse of asking him where the campus ministry is.

He was not surprised when he saw me and he just replied.

"There  ...” his hands were leading at the north.

My mind ran out of words after being caught and I just simply said,

"Thanks. Just continue what you’re doing. It’s beautiful! ", and I rushed then pretending to go to the campus ministry.

What happened in the garden was just the start of our friendship and I never realized that I got close to him since we always see each other in the library. It happened when we are on the same table and he saw me having difficulties in solving a math problem. Without hesitation, he offered to answer the math problem in which I was surprised to accept it.

Takahiro Narumi as Kei
When he was teaching me, I realized that the guy beside me is the weird guy my classmates are teasing. He was just misunderstood. The thought of him as a weird guy was gone. I found him cute at all because he has tantalizing eyes, physique built and a cute smile. Rarely do I get to know a person with a baritone voice too.

His name is Kei, a 3rd year student. He is a top student placing in the fourth spot. You couldn’t see him as a son of a well-known businessman because despite of the luxury that he has, he is a simple guy. He's also humble with his achievements.

Well ,we usually meet in the garden where he plays his violin. I kept our meetings a secret from my friends because I don’t want to be an everyone’s jest but each day, meeting with Kei was an excitement. I understand him now and I seem to be comfortable with him talking things the two of us can only understand. That’s when I knew I was the one he’s really waiting for when he’s on the bench because he noticed that my classmates were teasing me to him. I can’t believe he knew that. 

I considered him as my older brother but as days and nights passed, my eerie feeling towards him started to develop. It all began when he uttered those words:  "You know, you’re beautiful when you smile, it makes me happy.", and as he was saying me this he put a rose on my ear.

I blushed for a while. What does Kei trying to say? Those words served to be a bell for me. Sometimes it made me smile to think that he’s happy when I’m with him. He is not a weird guy anymore. I’ve noticed that as we meet each day, I could see a lot of changes in him. He is more attractive each day. 

The day of September 1 was really a revelation for me when he said something that answered all my questions. I was surprised when he finally took courage to say what he felt for me and as he expressed it, I couldn’t find the words to say, trying to resist the tension. I wanted to say what I also felt for him but then, I chose what is right. 

"Kei, you know this is not right. I treated you as my brother and we should not be more than that.", I said.

It was hard for me to conceal my feelings towards him. I still couldn’t believe him telling me those words I so long to hear. He told me that he learned to trust himself because of me and that I was the only one who accepted his weaknesses. If only I’ll accept his love.

"Just give me some time to think Kei. Not now.“ , was the only thing that I said.  He looked at me if there’s a chance but I didn’t look at him in the eye. So Kei left with no choice.

"Well, I’ll respect your decision. See you next day, Heidi. ", then he kissed me on the cheek and  walked away. I was not in my senses at that time.


The night seemed to be peaceful while I’m in a troubled mind. Did Kei confess his feelings already? I struggled to tell myself that what he'd said was not true. I have feelings for him too but I promised to my parents not to enter relatonships while I’m studying. I really cried the entire night for it was difficult for me, difficult than any math problems could ever unravel but then I came up with a decision……………

Well, I find myself as a college student right now and the memories that I had with Kei will never fade because we built good memories together. Kei and I chose to separate ways not to end up our friendship but to make our future. Kei gave me inspiration to strive hard and reach for my dreams.  He didn’t leave me despite of my decision and instead he cares more for me than my girl friends do. We still have communication and we talk things under the sun. What happened that first day of September was a memorable one for it was a test of friendship between the two of us. I realized that love is patient, it always hopes, always perseveres and it never fails. It doesn't hurry. So I closed my eyes for a minute and I laughed at the thought that l will never forget having my best friend as your first love. THE END

BERDE (play): STORY ANALYSIS


NOTE: Hello, this is the story analysis about the play that I've watched. It's entitled 'Berde'. To know about the play, I think the details below can explain all about it. It is for reference purposes only.
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1. The characters involved in the play

*Edwin Ocampo – is the main character of the story. He is a homosexual who has been in a relationship with a man named Butch for already eight months. The only child of the couple and is being pampered by her mother while his father was working. Despite of his mother's acceptance on his identity, his father didn’t accept him as who he is. 

*Butch – is the boyfriend of Edwin. Since their first meeting in which Edwin had brought him up to his room he started to have mutual feeli
ngs with him. A gentle man who didn’t care what might others say about the relationship between him and Edwin. 

*Charo Ocampo – a supportive mother and a loyal wife. She was the one who accepted her son’s true self despite of his husband’s disbelief that their son is not a man. She pampered his son since young and gave Edwin anything that satisfies him. Though she know that her husband is having an affair with another woman, she’s still loyal with her husband.

*Arman Ocampo – is the cold and oppressive father of Edwin. His plan of having his son follow his steps in the military platform dissipated after he knew that his son is acting strangely, for short, gay. Disappointed, he looked at his son’s gender difference as a disease and tries to consult it to a psychiatrist to undergo treatment. He eventually died due to heart attack after he had an argument with his son.

*Psychiatrist – the one the couple approached to, to let their son Edwin check about his condition. 


2. The values that are being highlighted in the story are the respect of one’s dignity, close-family ties of a family, the importance of hdom to express one’s love to his own kind.

3. The moral issues that deviates the teachings of the church are that God only made man and a woman and that man and woman can only be united in the sacrilege of marriage.


4. As a student I can help reduce gender discrimination by treating gays and lesbians equal in rights and dignity. Equity in responsibility for household chores would be a start, so that women who work outside aren't  responsible for the vast majority of the housework. A reduction in the number of assumptions that society makes would be good, too - so that fathers are called to pick up sick children from school and mothers are asked to coach sports teams. This would provide a model of equity to everyone involved and would help shape attitudes, leading to a more fundamentally equitable society.

5. Our discussions are somehow related to the play in a sense that the play shows how love conquers all. It crosses no bars and is prevailing. It was first time of me to witness an unusual love between two men. Furthermore, the previous stories we’ve read shows how love brings you to do unreasonable and criminal acts like what Edwin did when he threatened his mother to shot the gun to his head after the mother had refused to give a bigger sum of money just to run away with his man. I was able to relate in this one because it shows a strong conviction that what the characters were doing were right and that they didn’t break any law to be ill-treated or even excluded from the community.

6. Gender discrimination is a kind of act in which individuals of different views are not treated equal and are deprived from the society to express their feelings. While females have historically laid claim to the cry of unequal treatment, modern civil rights laws banning sex discrimination have been construed to protect males as well, especially in the area of employment.

Gender bullying, on the other hand, is any bullying behavior, whether physical or non-physical, that is based on a person's sexuality or gender. It is when sexuality is used as a weapon by boys or by girls.

Gender discrimination is rampant because the Philippines was ranked 12 out of 86 in the 2012 Social Institutions and Gender Index. The country was ranked 7 out of 102 in the 2009 Social Institutions and Gender Index. The 2011 Human Development Index (HDI) score for the country is 0.644, placing it in 112th place (out of 187 countries). The Gender Inequality Index score is 0.427. The Philippines' Global Gender Gap Index rating for 2011 is 0.7685, placing it 8th place (out of a total of 135 countries).

7. The reasons for the proliferation of hate crime are sometimes hate crimes are rigged when a person has no understanding of a race or religion, or something else, grows to be scared of that something. Later on, scare turns into hatred. It is when they are rigged when a person is often bullied and cannot stand it anymore, and their hatred has gotten to the extreme rate. And they fell like the whole world's against them.


8. The laws and bills that are pf other genders in our society are as follows: 

The most important law covering gender discrimination on the job is the Civil Rights Act of 1964—specifically, Title VII of that act, which strictly prohibits all forms of discrimination on the basis of race, color, religion, sex, or national origin in all aspects of employment. 
  • An employee who alleges that his or her manager only promotes male employees and keeps females in entry-level positions.
  • An employee who alleges that a manager or other person in power tells jokes or makes statements that are demeaning, insulting, or offensive to women.
  • A manager who makes it clear, either through his actions or words, that he wants to have sexual relations with a female employee.
  • A manager who asks inappropriate and unnecessary questions about a female employee's sex life.
  • A manager who touches his female employees in inappropriate ways without consent.
Equal Pay Act officially gives everyone protection under the law in regards to equal pay for equal work, but inequities still exist in almost every employment sector. 

9. In every problem there's a solution, so the following are mediums to reduce and further eliminate gender discrimination:

We could start by:
  • Recognizing that international cooperation between Member States and relevant intergovernmental and non-governmental organizations is essential for effectively solving the problem of gender inequality. Convinced of the need to protect and assist all victims of sexual abuse due to lack of inequality, with full respectful of human's rights,
  • Encouraging the governement to take appropriate measures to raise public awareness of the issue to discourage gender inequality around the world;
  • Recommending that Violence against women should be addressed and recognized and get state support: access to medical assistance and psychological support
10. I believe that people form prejudices of others because based on my perspective, it is due to a combination of factors including both personal and political matter. On the personal side, one major factor is probably fear of the unknown (personal sense of security). It does bring a feeling of comfort, even if on a superficial level, if you are around people similar to yourself (at least from outside appearance) - suppose this is human nature in a way.

Stereotypical, prejudice, and discrimination will not be stopped if we stand by and choose not to take action. If everyone would start listening to each other to understand, and speak to be understood, maybe we could create a society founded in acceptance,peace and love instead of bigotry, hate and destruction. There is no doubt our world would be a safer place.

11. For me, if I would be the witness to an incident that resulted in the harms of others, I will surely stand for what is right. I will not turn back nor surrender in fighting. I will stop it as soon as possible and I will tell them that what they are doing is not right. It can't solve their problem because what good would it be to bring or commit such violences to other people? 

12. We, the youth of our generation can promote justice and tolerance in our community by promoting respect for human life first and foremost, by setting an example with their own beliefs and actions. We can raise awareness of the plight of the poor in your home country and world wide. Speaking out against Human Rights abuses. Defending the defenseless and reporting any abuses you see in your personal life, including reporting child or elder abuse , and domestic abuse in your community. See if your can organize your classmates to adopt an orphange or an organization like Doctors without Borders, or a faith-based group like Feed the Children. There is a bottomless well of need in the world for those who wish to help

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Electronic resources:


http://illustriousjosh.blogspot.com/2012/08/berde-hindi-lang-pula-ang-kulay-ng-pag.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT_rights_in_the_Philippines
http://dmc122011.delmar.edu/socsci/rlong/race/far-03.htm
http://www.cliffsnotes.com/study_guide/Prejudice-andDiscrimination.topicArticleId-26957,articleId-26886.html
http://www.ehow.com/list_7499672_solutions-gender-discrimination.html
http://www.expertlaw.com/library/employment/sexual_discrimination.html

Reaction Paper about the article Cut Down Edible Waste


It has been customary to us Filipinos that whenever we have special occasions or gatherings, we should prepare something for it and the thought of food is the top priority for most of us.
Foods are the highlight of the celebration and the more food you put on your table, the more people go rush in to your house. Well, things can go as planned but one thing that brings menace after the festive and lavish party is the tons of dishes to be washed and the one that we didn’t notice, the horror of looking at the leftovers in our trash bins.

The idea of trashing out food from one’s dish is a painstaking to think about, much more to those dishes whose foods were not yet touched. You just can’t throw it away but you need to or it’ll get spoiled right away. 

I agree that billion tons of food is wasted annually. It is a ‘no doubt’ fact since restaurants are growing over the metro and even households do these things without knowing its effects in our environment and even in our money. 

As I’ve read the article, I understand that instead of wasting food, why not have some ways on how to reduce it, to be concerned in our environment?

I realized that there are so many ways to reduce food wastes. Throwing it all away is not the solution. In order to have an eco-friendly environment, I have come up some ideas on how to reduce it.
We should be more conscious about its shelf-life, storage temperature and its availability so as to remind ourselves that we should consume it earlier before it spoils. I agree that we should consider the number of people to be accommodated so that we can easily estimate how much food we are going to prepare.

Well, some tips in the article told me that I’m not that negligent when it comes to disposing food wastes because my family and I observe it too. After having dinner, we collect the food scraps and we give it to our pets. Sometimes when we have leftovers, my mother used to be a creative cook when she turns the food into another one by adding seasonings to make the food more flavorful.

To know that tons of food wastes were dumped in landfills is to know that billions of people suffer from hunger. This issue should teach us a lesson that we must not waste food. Since most of us can’t help having some leftovers from the parties, why let some of our less fortunate neighbors to come by your house and share to them your blessings? It would be more fulfilling and the party would be more meaningful since you build a good relationship to your neighbors.

The bottom line of this article is this: always remember the 3 Rs which are to Reduce, Reuse, and Recycle. For me they are certainly applicable to food wastes since you have an option to reduce it as well as make something out of it. We all have creative minds and I’m confident that we can do something about it. Above all, we should be thankful that until now we still have something to eat and we should put in to our minds that we eat anything on our table to eliminate food waste.

from Bato Balani Magazine "CUT DOWN EDIBLE WASTE"