Tuesday, July 7, 2020

i AM MULAN

Ever since I was a kid, I always admired the Disney movie, Mulan. Although she is not a princess, she is my favorite Disney heroine because she is a brave and selfless daughter. 

I remember the time my father bought it for us and he played it in our VHS player for the first time. Since then, I want to be like her because I love her courage to prove herself that she is strong like a man.

Mulan is more focused on what she could do for the family. She's independent and courageous. She did what is best and that is to keep her father safe and to give honor for her family. 

The greatest gift and honor is having you for a daughter. 

This line melted my heart. What a moving scene, it hits me hard. I cried a bucketful of tears when Mulan's father hugged her in the ending. The love for our family will always be greater. That's why I love Mulan.

Like her, I took the courage to be away from the family leaving from my comfort zone to further help in sustaining the needs of our family. While being away from home, I always think of them.. I'm literally crying here. and I can't wait to go home, hug my parents and dine with my family once again.

Now, I understand the song, Reflection by Christina Aguilera.

Saturday, June 6, 2020

God’s reason for my delay

Aside from this COVID-19 crisis, God has a reason why he delayed my flight to the United States. Instead of getting impatient, I even thank him for he let me spend most of my time doing the things that I’ll definitely miss like spending time with my family and awakening my talents. But aside from that, through this delay, I got to know God better.

Each and everyday, my need to follow His footsteps grows.  As I wake up early, I find the stillness of the morning my avenue to thank God for another wonderful day and to praise him for the awesome creations he gave for us. The freshness of the wind and twitting of the birds are music to my ears as I feel his mighty presence and imagining that I am talking with him in the paradise. The inspirational books in our shelf serve as my fuel to strengthen my faith.

Because of this delay, I found my purpose and existence in life. I turned away from my wrongdoings and followed God’s teachings by reading the Good News in the bible daily. I watched Bro. Eli Soriano’s bible expositions. My family made a strong connection to God by reciting the rosary in the evening, calling Mama Mary to relay our petition to God for world peace and the discovery of cure to this virus. This is a beautiful conversion for us to be closer to God and put him as our center of our family.

God is truly amazing! Days turned into weeks and I didn’t seem to mind the day of lifting of the quarantine.

Thank you, Lord Almighty Father for the delay. I’m savoring the time I left before I leave home. I will definitely miss my father’s homecooked meals, meaningful conversations with mother and the fun times I had with my siblings. I come to appreciate that no matter how financially challenged we are, I am blessed with a family who share the same passion and interest as mine and that is to get to know You.

Thank you, God for giving me the chance to improve myself.  This is just the beginning. You opened my heart and soul and you made me realize that your love is eternal. You are always there when we are persecuted and suffered greatly.

I hope that as I live in this temporary life, I will propagate your goodness and will strengthen my faith when times are not in favor of me. You are my salvation. You are the God of wonders!

Friday, June 5, 2020

Staying positive during the lockdown

With the problems this viral crisis brought us like financial insecurity, losing jobs, and uncertainties with prolonged lockdowns, we can’t deny the fact that some people are now experiencing depression and this is something to be dealt with as soon as possible.

So in order for us not to feel miserable too, I thought of several ways to keep us physically, emotionally and spritually healthy. This is in connection to the previous blog I’ve posted but this is to put emphasis on how we keep ourselves positive amidst the depression. Through these activities, we didn’t feel bored as we wait for the lifting of the community quarantine.

Here are the activities we do during the quarantine:

1.       Meditation

-          At 5 o’clock in the morning, I, together with Cherry, Shiralee and Kenneth wake up to meditate. We welcome the another extension of our lives by sitting together in my room closing our eyes, feeling God’s presence and keeping positive vibes as we breathe in hope and expel out the negativities. The stillness of the morning calms my senses. We do this for 30 minutes and I feel so much refreshed and renewed after the session.

2.       Exercise

-          Right after meditation, we do exercise. Thanks to Roberta’s Gym on Youtube! We start by warming up our bodies and we proceed to the exercise proper where there are daily exercises for cardio, endurance, and strength. We focused on firming our glutes and removing our belly flab. At first, it was hard to execute some moves but as days passed, I got used to it. The challenging exercises for me are the squats, 50-80 jumping jacks, star jumps, mountain climbing, and 1-minute plank. I also do hula hooping and cycling in the afternoon. With Cherry and the group, my motivation to lose weight grows stronger because I need to join them or else I will be marked ‘X’ for not participating. It’s really great to see the members of the family exercising together to be healthy. The family that sweats together stays fit forever.

3.       Diet

-          In the morning, I and Cherry only eat oats with boiled egg. I try to limit my rice intake. I do this to boost my metabolism. With my father’s garden, I thank God for giving us green leafy vegetables to eat such as malunggay and alugbati. We have a balanced diet as we alternate eating pork, chicken and fish. I make sure to drink plenty of water as well. I’ve seen improvements to my skin. My face doesn’t have pimples anymore and my complexion even fairer. There are so many benefits to eating healthy foods as I have regular bowel movement.

4.       Bible and Worship Songs

-          As I start doing the household chores, I listen to joyful worship songs. This makes me reminded everyday of God’s love. I always tune in to Hillsong and MCGI worship songs. I feel alive and happy to sing wonderful praises to God. Before going to bed, I make sure to read the daily gospel and talk to God to the things that happened during the day. I treasure my alone moments with God.

5.       Bonding time with my family

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As much as possible, we stay away from the social media. I always enjoy meaningful and fun conversations with my family. My Mum and my sister Cherry are the jokers of the family. I and Pup exchange our opinions about current events. We tease Kenneth sometimes. We asked Shiralee about her love life. Through this, we were able to share our knowledge from the reference books that we’ve read and reflections from the bible.

I hope that as we start to adapt the NEW NORMAL, we may still continue to do the productive things we have done during the quarantine. Honestly, I didn’t feel worried each passing day as these activities helped me to forget my problems. Instead, I look forward each day thinking how I will please God. This gives me a positive outlook in life. This has been the conversion that I am looking for and I’m going to continue to be fit, positive and calm to keep myself intact. This too shall pass.


Tuesday, June 2, 2020

Home Service MedTech at your service!

My cute homeservice kit filled with tubes and syringes
My mini homeservice kit 

In the laboratory, we offer home service. Yes, a patient can have his/her blood drawn in the comforts of their home. That means they could get a phlebotomist to do the venipuncture and shall be the ones to deliver the samples to the lab.

My first home service was memorable. At that time, I was assigned in the Clinical Microscopy and medtechs assigned in this section will be the ‘first call’ if there is any home service available. At around 10 in the morning, while I was processing urine samples, the lab encoder informed me that there would be a home service and I should prepare the phlebo kit since the driver was waiting.

After knowing the request, nervousness hit upon me and several questions popped out like, What if the patient is hard-stick? With fragile or collapsible veins? What happens if I can’t get a blood sample?

I always blame myself for being so pessimistic but I need to do this to keep my pride. Since this was my first time being a home service medtech, I decided to bring an intern as my assistant. As I prepared the kit, the driver was indeed waiting for us so after I made sure that my provisions are complete, we went with the driver to the parking lot.

Whoa, at first, I really felt uneasiness within as we were on our way to the patient’s house. Good thing the driver was talkative as I asked him questions about the patient. He said that ‘Sir’ is nice and there is nothing to worry about. They used to have an on-call medtech before (a former colleague) when that medtech decided to work abroad so they don’t have a choice but to get another one.

The patient lives at an exclusive villa and as we were near the place, I could say that he’s extravagantly rich as the gates automatically opened and the landscape of the house was breathtaking. I and my intern thought it was like a retreat house. Their house was so peaceful, the twits of the birds and the freshness of the wind welcomed us.

Panic started to crept when we were led by the caretaker inside. The patient was already there and I told myself that I will get the blood as soon as possible. I greeted ‘Sir’ and I figured he’s a nice man already in his 70s. I looked at his lab request, it was Executive Panel C. That would be 3 EDTA tubes, 3 Red Tops and 1 ESR. As I asked him to stretch his arms, what a big relief I had in my body as the man’s median vein was palpable! Thank God!

I decided to use Evacuated Tube System and I successfully filled the tubes. My intern helped in assembling the supplies and after I filled the last tube, removed the needle from the vein and applied pressure, the patient didn’t complain. I put the labels into its respective tubes and the patient gave me the homeservice fee or the professional fee. I just put it inside my pocket first and thanked him. I told him that all the results will be released in the afternoon.

Never did I expect that the man was gallant, when we finally returned to the lab, I realized he gave me a double of the suggested homeservice fee! I was thankful and gave the intern her share. I vividly recalled I treated myself a mouthwatering ‘sisig’ for lunch. Yum!

That marked the start of being the family’s medtech of a prominent business owner here in Cebu. I also had the chance to get the blood sample of his wife then time came when they recommended me to another generous family. The driver told me they were satisfied of my service. Since then, they always call me for monthly lab tests or when they feel ill and the doctor requests for CBC. I feel so loved by them and so are the drivers, they were ready to fetch me even from my home when need of blood extraction arises. I always receive a warm welcome from them.

Holy water given by Ma'am Marilyn from 
Lourdes, France


As I spent my days in Clinical Microscopy, I found homeservices enjoyable. It was not only challenging as a phlebotomist but through this, it saved me financially when I’m almost running out of money. Honestly, I was able to earn extra thru this. Although it’s inevitable to come across patients with difficult veins but butterfly is always on the rescue. Also, you couldn’t help to face strict patients or inquisitive family members when you have to try on the other vein since you are in their abode. Confidence is the key here! I always keep myself calm to each homeservice and I make sure that I return to the lab with the patient’s sample.  

Well, I’m gonna miss home service. I wonder if my new hospital offers this. My prayers to the families I’ve serviced for almost 2 years. Thank you so much, Ma’am and Sir. It’s a pleasure to work with you.

Sunday, May 31, 2020

My Comforting Songs

There are times when I just couldn't understand what's happening in my life. So for me to escape my problems, I resort to listening songs that lift my soul up. When listening to each music and its lyrics, I feel it's as if God is talking to me. He reassures me that he's always there in good times and bad times no matter what.

My life is a mess. Tough times really made me feel like I'm alone and I wonder if I could go on. Sometimes, I find myself crying in the middle of the song. Truly, music is my medicine. Without these meaningful songs, I wouldn't overcome depression, the darkest period of my life when I always thought of the negativities in the world.

When I feel down, I quickly open my playlist. Although these songs are old but they never fail to encourage me. It's really true that you'll get to understand the meaning of the lyrics when you're sad. I thank God for the singers, who delivered these beautiful songs to enliven the weakening spirit of mine.

Aside from my Hillsong worship songs, these are what I call my 'comforter songs' because I can feel God's presence comforting me when I'm in the verge of surrendering.

Here are my comforting tracks:

My Love will see you through by Marco Sison
- I always hear my father singing this song wholeheartedly. This is one of his favorite karaoke piece. God knows how we faced the turmoils in the family but with Him as the center of our faith, we hold on to His promise.

When the future is bleak, the song gives me strength to work on my dreams, to beat the odds, and to conquer my fear for I have God beside me.

My every success is not possible without God at my side.

I will be here for you by Michael W Smith
-At first, I thought that this is a love song but when I tried to understand the lyrics, I realized that God wants us to know that he's always there watching over us. I love listening to this song most especially at the middle of the night. I think of God as my protector, he will never forsake me. I just knew that Michael W Smith is a Christian worship singer like Don Moen.

Kung Kailangan Mo Ako by Rey Valera
- A well known OPM that never gets old. To an introvert like me, Papa Jesus is my bestfriend, my confidante to all my problems. I just felt relieved listening to this song. Rey Valera's relaxing voice adds the emotion of sincerity.

Take me I'll follow by Bobby Caldwell
- Following the path to God has never been easy. We have to undergo hardships and struggles. Each passing day, I want to follow God. I want him to lead my life. 

I see you Lord by Aiza Seguerra
- The first time I hear this song was from an invocation. The song is soothing. It makes you feel God's wonderful creations and be thankful of His amazing grace. This is a constant reminder that we should feel him.

That ends my Top 5 comforting songs.
I hope that my selection of songs could deliver the same message to you as it had inflicted on me. These songs are inspirational and it should be valued by the generations of today. It will be a constant reminder that we are not alone as we continue to wander into this world.

Saturday, May 30, 2020

My Quarantine Diaries

Binge reading my favorite author's books

My days during the quarantine period have been very productive.

We never say we are bored staying in the house since there are lots of things to be done in the first place. It’s like every single day, we need to accomplish goals and I found myself planning what to do for the next day. Set aside tiktok and netflix for a while, here are the things that kept me busy:

1.       Household Chores
·         Having a two-story house isn’t easy to clean. With seven spacious bedrooms (dusting and rearranging furnitures and organizing stuffs) it’s impossible to finish all of it in one day. Also, it is not nature of our parents to just sit on the couch the whole day since they are always up to something, most of it cleaning. So as their children, we take initiatives to help. I need extra hand to get it done so I always ask my siblings to help me with the activities. These take the whole morning until lunchtime comes.
·         We take turns in washing the dishes as well. One has to sweep and mop the floor and another has to wipe the dishes before we watch TV.
·         As for the laundry, I and my sister do it every other day.

2.       Reading books
·         Being a bookworm, I made sure I allocate time for reading. I do this in the afternoon. I challenged myself to read as many books as I can. I’m more focused on books bought from Big Bad Wolf since I was impulsive in buying it last year. I just thought that this is the right time to make use of them. As of this writing, I am starting to read Mark Twain’s The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn.
Made finishing touches of my song compositions 

3.       Awakening my musical interests
·         I started tuning my guitar and doing song covers once again as my stress reliever. There’s always music whenever we wash our clothes too to take away boredom.
·         I completed my unfinished song compositions
·         I saw improvements in finding my vocal range. I want to be an opera singer!

4.       Rosary
·         Improving our spiritual life is essential. With the cases of COVID-19 rising, we seek intervention of our heavenly father with intercession of the Blessed Virgin Mary to help us win this battle. We do this in the evening, when we’re done washing the dishes. I thank God that the whole family is participative where aside from reciting the rosary, we also offer our heartfelt petitions for humanity and for the whole world.

5.       Relax
·         Every once in a while we tend to rest and relax. Since I’m out of work, an eight hours of sleep is what I really deserve. With so much hatred and negativities in social media, I tend to cut down my internet usage and instead, I spend time with my family by watching movies or sharing jokes with them.  
·         Of course, I use Tiktok once in a while. I also watch Youtube and Netflix videos if I have enough mobile data. Of course, I’m reviving my blog site as well by writing drafts.

At the end of the day, I realized that things are worth it. Maybe this outbreak is an avenue to keep families closer together but again, I hope this pandemic will end soon and everything will be back to normal. After all, I still hope we can go to malls and enjoy outdoor activities before I fly to the US. I hope your quarantine days are as enjoyable as mine. Keep safe and stay indoors!

Thursday, May 28, 2020

Ticket to American Dream: Documents that a medtech should have

Are you a medical technologist ready to achieve your goals in working to USA? This blog might guide you.

These are the documents that I secured to apply as a medical technologist in the United States. All fees may be subjected to changes so better check their official websites for updates. So brace yourselves for a number of documents, these are:

1.       ASCPi Certificate

·         PRICE: $200/10000 PHP

·         VALIDITY: 3 years

2.       IELTS

·         PRICE: 10250 PHP

·         VALIDITY: 2 years

3.       CGFNS/ Visascreen

·         PRICE: $540/27500 PHP

·         VALIDITY: 5 years

4.       JSILNY and Associates- for course evaluation and American grade conversion. You need to mail your original TRANSCRIPT OF RECORDS and a filled out application form from their website.

·         PRICE: $140 (8100 PHP) to be paid thru credit card  

                                                               i.      1460 PHP as courier fee (thru LBC) to be delivered to JSILNY Miami, Florida

·         DURATION: may take at least 3 months

·         Advantage: No expiry

5.       Passport- not expired of course.. J

6.       Birth certificate- Philippine Statistics Authority (PSA) authenticated

7.       Current employer (Philippines)

·         Certificate of employment

·         Job description

·         Payslips

8.       Future Employer

·         Resume/CV

·         Soft copies of all files

Once you’re hired by an American Employer, this is what you’ll need.

9.       H-1B VISA (to be processed by the employer)

·         Labor Condition Application

·         Offer letter from the Future Employer

·         H-1B petition draft materials

·         Approved Notice of Action Form I-129 by the USCIS

·         H-1B working Visa (approved by the US Embassy)

10.   POEA COMPLIANCE SHEET (I’ve made a detailed blog for this so please check it out)

·         POLO verified contract

·         Overseas Employment certificate

11.   PLANE TICKET TO USA J

·         To be shouldered by you or the company

Reminder: Please make sure to give your complete address most especially to your Visascreen certificate, JSILNY and Notice of Action to ensure that the documents will be delivered to you.

This might seem a very long and costly process but once you complete requirements number 1 to 7, you can now seek employers via internet or an agent. At first, I thought that the whole process was hilarious since I’m not from a well-off family. So I worked hard by taking part time jobs to earn the fees.

No matter what happens, hold on to your dream! You’re now up for visa sponsorship! Be patient and ask God’s guidance that someday you will get to the Land of the Free. Kaya mo yan!