CRY until your eyes run DRY

Time has come that as a human being, I should start the odyssey of my life. To taste the agonies and bitterness that life is giving to each one of us.

I cry.......cry...........cry until I feel light. It was really interesting that when you were young you don't have to worry financially or emotionally but as you grow up, you start to worry about things you had never worried before. Like me! I'm  just an ordinary college girl but look at me I do have many rotten struggles to strive on and after that I cry. So When I cry, I let out my emotions and my frustrated feelings.

I think there's nothing that you can do to escape the crisis . Once you cry, you feel tired and being tired will teach you how to fight the struggles and obstacles in life. You know life is just a matter a choice and if we only have a strong belief in God then it will never be hard for us to cope up with the things this complicated world keeps on giving us. 

Being ALONE and LEFT BEHIND

Life can be bitter at times. I can tell. You know, at this moment of time, I really don't know where should I belong because I feel like I don't fit in anymore. What used to be my happy life during the first semester turned out to be the opposite.How I want to tell the whole world that I'M already BORED!!!

Even though I've got friends but  still there's a part of me that's lacking. I can't figure out what is it but that's bothering me. Sometimes, your what so called friends will turn you down at the very least because they see something that they don't like and the worst part, gossiping right behind your back. Tsk.Tsk. That's why I'm talking to you all about ALONE IN SPIRIT.

Sometimes it's good for us to be alone, to assess ourselves if we are ready to face the raucous and complicated world alone and there will be times you rather like being alone because you feel better, I do the same thing sometimes!!

Ever feel like YOU ARE AGAINST THE WORLD?

It might be YES or NOT REALLY. It depends but for those who feel the same way as me. It's difficult because I used to be a shy girl in school but still they don't like me as a person. They judged me by saying I'm not a good friend because I didn't let them see my answer during the quiz. Huh! Is that reasonable? They sometimes left me without a word,

For now, I'm alone. I don't see anyone who will understand me and even let me lend her shoulder to cry on. Being alone in spirit makes me sick but I can't do anything with it. Things are getting tough and its colors fade. May the good Lord will give me strength and faith that even though my world seems dull nowadays. I will learn to love it and even change it for the BETTER.

I'll just ignore what other people say and go on with the flow.

9 Reasons People Cheat

Well as I told you before,..Cheating is a tactic in a game but I don't know if it will be applicable when it comes to love..I bet that no one in this world since their young age do not experience cheating..even I commit it also but not as always..
So, are cheaters born cheaters, or do certain situations cause people to cheat? Probably a little bit of both. Here are some situations that make people cheat:

1. Bored
I'd say this is the most common reason that people cheat.It's tough to keep that edge throughout a relationship. Things start off grand and then level off and then you both realize that it's still real life. When you meet someone else, that inaugural excitement of a new relationship kicks back in.

2. Dependence
At first glance, cheating seems like independent behavior. It could be interpreted as doing what you want, when you want. But I would argue that cheating is a dependent behavior. A cheater is dependent because they are not strong enough to break up with their significant other in order to get with the new person.
3. Confusion
Sometimes life or a particular situation can get to you. When the perfect storm of confusion is going on in your head, you make mistakes.

4. Because They Let You
If any girl ever cheated on me, I'd break up with her immediately. Forgiving a cheater is putting up with it, and starts a vicious cycle. That person who cheated may lose respect for you and might continue to cheat-because they know they can get away with it, because you'll continue to take them back.

5. Nurturing
If someone is mistreating you, then your first instinct is to get away from him or her. But sometimes it's not that simple-maybe you are raising kids together. If you feel trapped in a bad relationship, it's only natural that you will run to the open arms of a person who treats you well.

6. Revenge
This is quite simple- an eye for an eye. Cheat on them if they cheat on you. If they continuously hurt you or abuse you in some way, you do it to get them back.

7. Confirmation of AttractivenessSometimes when you're in a long relationship, or if your significant other is taking you for granted, you begin to wonder if you're still attractive. Perhaps, because you were out on the dating circuit, you felt more attractive when you were single. If you have an affair, you've proven that a new person can be attracted to you.

8. The ThrillSome people just enjoy the thrill of cheating: running around secretly, risking getting caught, andcreating thrilling moments with a forbidden romance.

9. They Don't Consider It Cheating, Even Though You MightRelationships have that grey area, usually right before you become exclusive. He thinks date #4 is when you're "together," and you think date #2 is when you're "together." If you haven't talked about exclusivity, someone may think they are well within their rights to see other people, even though the other person in the relationship may not.

I don't understand why people don't break up as soon as they have an urge to cheat. Is it natural to have temptation, or is temptation a sign that the relationship is losing its fire? What reasons would you add to this list, and do you disagree with any? If you've ever cheated, why did you do it? Could you forgive a cheater? If you are single, but seeing a person who is in a committed relationship, does that make you a cheater?

Posted by Rich
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Never Judge a Person

You know, I was so upset. You know why?

Well, I will tell you this as a secret between the two of us and please don't dare to tell anyone else..Here I go. I will start my story~~~

It was 9:00 am and I started eating my snack in the classroom. My INTELLIGENT classmates are roaming around to ask who are those fellas that are included in TOP 15. They noticed me (I don't know why) and ask me if I were included in the list and what place I am. I retorted and say..

"No, I wasn't included, but I'm in 21st place"

You know what my classmates responded?

They laughed at me..What a reaction!!!
In those times that they laughed in front of me .. I looked at myself and suddenly dusk hit upon me..I realize that I'm so low and weak that I can't stand on my own..

From the start, I look down myself as an ugly,dumb and unworthy person. But I came out of my shell and began to have what we called 'SELF ESTEEM' for my family and friends who are always there for me to coax and told me to cheer up all times. But of all those efforts that I've done to be POSITIVE and be CONFIDENT will just be ruined and turned into devastation by the people who don't even feed me and who don't even hold my life?!!

I cried, for the world that I stepped on now is not fair. Why? Because they made people almost perfect except me. Why do they have to laugh me?Is it because they are smart while I am not..??I described them as the 'DISCRIMINATOR' and I don't like their traits. Even though they are smart, they should not look down others and find their weaknesses in a person.

Upon hearing this, my one classmate (who joined the laughing or started it probably) approached me and ask for an apology. It takes minutes for me to decide and to be alone and I forgave her. If Jesus forgives us sinners why can't I forgive them?

Life is not always at the top. I wish that someday, people don't see me as an ugly person but someone a friend who can give advices. NEVER JUDGE A PERSON whom you didn't know yet. You must see to it that before prejudice others is you must look what's in yourself. Today, I thanked Heavenly Father for giving lecture in this day. Therefore, I conclude that not all people have the same characteristics and he made us different. We should treat one another as brothers and sisters. Praise the Lord!!!